Do girls = definition of insanity?

[Death's Chill]

Yeah, I'm confused.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:

It's really annoying me. I've been reading up on general "ladder" theory (if you don't know what it is, you should look it up), and I have come to a conclusion. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch. Most of the people I talk to about this claim that it's a simple game, were the goal is to fuck them over before they do you. I can't even begin to express my dissatisfaction with this mind frame, but yet the more I live... the more I begin to fear its accuracy.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. That's all you ever hear coming from them, isn't it? Well, I think they are full of shit.

When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. Equal? Ya right. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

If so, you're damn lucky; I'll say that.

Perhaps I'm just not in the pristine age group. Girls my age are, well, ridiculous...

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:

[shnedit]

. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?


Not on a first date man, you pay. After that they cough up. Hell im happy to pay to try to get them drunk, so many are shy and quiet.

And yes. All women are crazy.

[Perith]

Just go gay, I hear it's all the rage these days...

[Battle]

Girls like assholes. I havent figured out why yet, but you need to be an asshole to get girls to respect you.

[Jurien]

What the f... man! Why here on the darkfall forum

[Spinewire]

Yeah, I'm confused.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:

It's really annoying me. I've been reading up on general "ladder" theory (if you don't know what it is, you should look it up), and I have come to a conclusion. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch. Most of the people I talk to about this claim that it's a simple game, were the goal is to fuck them over before they do you. I can't even begin to express my dissatisfaction with this mind frame, but yet the more I live... the more I begin to fear its accuracy.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. That's all you ever hear coming from them, isn't it? Well, I think they are full of shit.

When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. Equal? Ya right. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

If so, you're damn lucky; I'll say that.

Perhaps I'm just not in the pristine age group. Girls my age are, well, ridiculous...

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:
stop being picky and get your dick wet a few time then worry about it when your older imo...

[Jimzs70]

When in doubt, whip it out.
Works every time.

[Death's Chill]

Not on a first date man, you pay. After that they cough up. Hell im happy to pay to try to get them drunk, so many are shy and quiet.

And yes. All women are crazy.

The thing about that, though, is if you pay for it all, doesn't it boil down to prostitution? And hell, it's not even guaranteed sex... so you're paying for a chance at it. I think that's ridiculous.

If I met a girl that insisted on paying for her share, I'd truly be impressed. Wonder if there are any girls my age who would...

Girls like assholes. I havent figured out why yet, but you need to be an asshole to get girls to respect you.

Confidence, not jerks.

Some girls do like bad boys though, and it's probably stemming from some parental issues, the fact he's off limits makes him attractive I guess? In general, I think just being confident is what works.

This thread is more about whether or not it's worth it, because I want a real relationship with an intelligent but attractive girl. Do they even exist?

[Bronn]

Completely off-off topic but reading that reminded me of one of my favorite movie quotes, this one is from Hot Shots:

"I'm a Virgin. I'm just not very good at it."

[Mordhak]

Maybe if you wouldn't be such a hopeless dork the girls wouldn't toy with you as much.

[Fro]

Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...
:

Am i the only male who does this also?

[Death's Chill]

Maybe if you wouldn't be such a hopeless dork the girls wouldn't toy with you as much.

I'm not a dork. I'm fun, workout, fairly smart, and I have time on my hands. (I do try not to be too available though, or else they'll probably get bored.)

But that being said, I don't just want to fuck any girl.

Where the fuck did romance go?

Am i the only male who does this also?

You mean who manipulates girls? No, plenty of guys do that. Like I said, it seems to be a game, who can screw the other over first... guys who are just interested in fucking love this.

It sucks for people like me though.

[Vertigo Vain]

http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx10.htm

No, you are.

[Pumpkin]

Just go gay, I hear it's all the rage these days...

Solid advice.

[shnedit]

The thing about that, though, is if you pay for it all, doesn't it boil down to prostitution? And hell, it's not even guaranteed sex... so you're paying for a chance at it. I think that's ridiculous.

Haha, dont let them trick you either. When they say "Want me to pay some"
they really mean. "You pick up the check".

Its just the rule of life!

If I met a girl that insisted on paying for her share, I'd truly be impressed. Wonder if there are any girls my age who would...


Only once have I , and that was a causal kinda date, we knew each other already. Id get used to it, its the way things are.

[Fro]

I'm not a dork. I'm fun, workout, fairly smart, and I have time on my hands. (I do try not to be too available though, or else they'll probably get bored.)

But that being said, I don't just want to fuck any girl.

Where the fuck did romance go?

Firstly have you checked your cock is still there? Secondly spots.

[Bronn]

OoO Fro you manipulate men for personal gain?

*bats eyes*

[tallefred]

It's even worse when my sister tries to pull that sort of shit, since I'm not even getting anything from her.

[shnedit]

OoO Fro you manipulate men for personal gain?

*bats eyes*

I wish he'd maniupate me into bed *gay hand*

Superfanastic!

It's even worse when my sister tries to pull that sort of shit, since I'm not even getting anything from her.

Why not? Insest is cool beans.

[Jangang]

Girls like assholes. I havent figured out why yet, but you need to be an asshole to get girls to respect you.

Its because every guy they've met since they were 13 has been trying to get in their pants. Most by being really nice, and doing stuff for them.

That is the norm, and doens't stick out.

Assholes however don't treat them like everyone else does, which in turn makes them wet.

BAM, You've been educated!

[Death's Chill]

Haha, dont let them trick you either. When they say "Want me to pay some"
they really mean. "You pick up the check".

Its just the rule of life!


Only once have I , and that was a causal kinda date, we knew each other already. Id get used to it, its the way things are.

If a girl told me she wanted to pay, I'd call her bluff.. hoping it wasn't a bluff. Truth is, if she hates me for it, she's not the type of girl I'd want to be with. Too bad those I seem to like are so fucking rare. :ninja:

[Bronn]

But that being said, I don't just want to fuck any girl.

Where the fuck did romance go?



.

Here is your first clue from me towards real life....

Romance is an idea...its like that perfect family with the white picket house....it doesn't exist.

The term romance was something women made up as something for guys to strive for to win their pussies....

Basically, you want this? you give me romance.

[Fro]

OoO Fro you manipulate men for personal gain?

*bats eyes*

Yeh but not for sex.

[Bronn]

THuperfanastic!



.

Fixed for you Shned :rolleyes:

[Death's Chill]

Its because every guy they've met since they were 13 has been trying to get in their pants. Most by being really nice, and doing stuff for them.

That is the norm, and doens't stick out.

Assholes however don't treat them like everyone else does, which in turn makes them wet.

BAM, You've been educated!

Well, you don't have to be an asshole for that, you just don't supplicate them. If you don't act any different than if you were with a friend, you'll gain respect as it shows confidence and strength. :)

Here is your first clue from me towards real life....

Romance is an idea...its like that perfect family with the white picket house....it doesn't exist.

The term romance was something women made up as something for guys to strive for to win their pussies....

Basically, you want this? you give me romance.

So you're telling me that there are no couples on the entire planet who mutually love each other because of who they are, their little details, how they feel around them, chemistry, connection and such?

I doubt that.

Though again... I fear that at my age you're probably right. Perhaps girls are way too immature right now for me to hope to find a girl like that who won't try to manipulate me.

There are some batshit insane girls out there, too. Some will even try to get you pregnant to trap you.

[shnedit]

Fixed for you Shned :rolleyes:

Wow thanks, I need to level up my gayness.

[Arintyll]

Annoying factor is high right now with the quality out there.

My only advice is this, Don't Settle! You have an idea of what you are looking for and that will change a bit over time but at its core its a solid foundation. If you end up settling, 20 years from now you are gonna be looking back and wondering why you put yourself through all the bullshit.

That being said, if you want to find quailty girls, you have to go where they are at. You are not likely to find them at the club. Join an activity group where you will have at least similar interests to start with. If you are religious, church functions are a good start. If you are in school, look for groups that will harbor quality. Chess clubs (good potential future gamer girls if they are not already), debate teams, etc.

Finally, remember that a good relationship is 2 people maintaining their individuality while comming together to share common interests. It requires give and take on both sides, and most importantly, open communication.

now that I've stopped channeling Dear Abby, ima gonna go get more coffee.

[Battle]

Its because every guy they've met since they were 13 has been trying to get in their pants. Most by being really nice, and doing stuff for them.

That is the norm, and doens't stick out.

Assholes however don't treat them like everyone else does, which in turn makes them wet.

BAM, You've been educated!

Yep, makes you look like a pussy if you are there kissing their ass and catering to their every need. You may get a few girls like this, but they will never respect you, and probably end up cheating with some asshole because they know that they can just walk all over you. You dont have to actually be an asshole, but it is important to be the man and wear the pants in the relationship.

[Bronn]

Yeh but not for sex.

Damnit! Thwarted again....

[tallefred]

Hmm insest.....

bbl.

[Lethn]

lulz and I thought I was bad with girls, well actually it seems to be just UK girls because foreign girls I get along with pretty well most of the time ( weird huh? ) but my basic thought pattern when it comes to girls has been either if they want to fuck with me, that's fine but they'd be better ready to face the consequences or just piss off entirely, if they're interested in me, fine but be my friend because that's the only way your going to get me to trust you enough to go that far.

This has pretty much worked 100% of the time, sure I haven't had a girlfriend yet, I'm not sure I even want one if the emotions the girl feels for me aren't even real, but it at least puts a big fat bold line in between you and them so they can decide whether they actually like you or not instead of just wanting to screw with you mentally, personally I'd rather have someone who genuinely wants me instead of just some slut looking for an easy lay.

Oh and I'm aware of the irony with the way I bitch about girls about me talking about girlfiends but I've got a best friend for one and quite a few friends too so I've known the way they think long enough to actually be able to deal with them at last that's best for me and I've been better off for it.

[Bronn]

Yep, makes you look like a pussy if you are there kissing their ass and catering to their every need. You may get a few girls like this, but they will never respect you, and probably end up cheating with some asshole because they know that they can just walk all over you. You dont have to actually be an asshole, but it is important to be the man and wear the pants in the relationship.

Reminds me of another quote..this one Ferris Buellar:

"You can't respect anyone who licks your boots"

[akrippler]

Stop being such a bitch.

/thread

[tallefred]

He's not being a bitch. He's advocating for men's rights.

[shnedit]

Hold on here.

Next time you go out take some rohypnol, bang in her drink.

Free surprise sex.

[Pcheez]

Romance, heh.

Damn it kid, wake up.

Women are just a nuiscance, wham bam thank you maam out the door.

The one you "love" and settle down with is the one you meet that just happens to be the least irritating.

If you strive so hard to find "the one", you will easily find a manipulative chameleon of a bitch that will be everything you want her to be. But when she gets what she wants out of you or bored of you, you will get dumped and you probably go into a depression and mope for a long while. This will result in your evolution to a heartless chauvanist who just uses women for sex.

You will then treat women like walking meat, or straight out ignoring them, they will flock to you if you have any factor of attraction (money,power,charisma[even asshole charisma]). Its just the way it works for some reason.

You will then proceed to fuck anything that moves with breasts and leave a trail of heartbreak behind you.

Eventually when your penis gets bored of its nomadic conquests, you will look for "the one" again, and having had much more experience with women, you will dig out all her bad traits pretty quickly. If shes not a total pain in the ass, you settle down.


That, is the way of real menz.

Dont kid yourself, you have no clue what you want yet.

dont bet too much on finding a graet girl you will settle down with so early in life.

Signed
Dr-Fil (░)

[jonyak]

seriously, at your age, hit anything that moves... if you don't you will regret it when you can't hit anything and getting that one hot single girl your age to talk to you is nect to impossible.

[jonyak]

Romance, heh.

Damn it kid, wake up.

Women are just a nuiscance, wham bam thank you maam out the door.

The one you "love" and settle down with is the one you meet that just happens to be the least irritating.

If you strive so hard to find "the one", you will easily find a manipulative chameleon of a bitch that will be everything you want her to be. But when she gets what she wants out of you or bored of you, you will get dumped and you probably go into a depression and mope for a long while. This will result in your evolution to a heartless chauvanist who just uses women for sex.

You will then treat women like walking meat, or straight out ignoring them, they will flock to you if you have any factor of attraction (money,power,charisma[even asshole charisma]). Its just the way it works for some reason.

You will then proceed to fuck anything that moves with breasts and leave a trail of heartbreak behind you.

Eventually when your penis gets bored of its nomadic conquests, you will look for "the one" again, and having had much more experience with women, you will dig out all her bad traits pretty quickly. If shes not a total pain in the ass, you settle down.


That, is the way of real menz.

Dont kid yourself, you have no clue what you want yet.

dont bet too much on finding a graet girl you will settle down with so early in life.

Signed
Dr-Fil (░)

wow... truer words have never been spoken...

this here should be the end of the thread.

[slugy]

Yeah, I'm confused.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:

It's really annoying me. I've been reading up on general "ladder" theory (if you don't know what it is, you should look it up), and I have come to a conclusion. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch. Most of the people I talk to about this claim that it's a simple game, were the goal is to fuck them over before they do you. I can't even begin to express my dissatisfaction with this mind frame, but yet the more I live... the more I begin to fear its accuracy.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. That's all you ever hear coming from them, isn't it? Well, I think they are full of shit.

When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. Equal? Ya right. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

If so, you're damn lucky; I'll say that.

Perhaps I'm just not in the pristine age group. Girls my age are, well, ridiculous...

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:

i took a girl out today, shes small and quite attractive (at least to my tastes) and tbh i didint spend a penny on her, apart from fuels. she even took care of the bridge toll. i think i like her quite a bit actually ;)

i dont think all girls are going to try and fuck you over though, its just, most will. and its not girls. people are just fucking cunts.

[holychicken]

My gf is attractive, in medical school and mad cool. Her only "shortcoming" is that she isn't very big into videogames. But in a way, that is a good thing because it is something I can do without worrying about having to include her in it.

So no, not all girls are insane or bitches or trying to screw you over. You either have bad luck, are looking in the wrong place or, maybe, you are the one who is insane.

[Spinewire]

i took a girl out today, shes small and quite attractive (at least to my tastes) and tbh i didint spend a penny on her, apart from fuels. she even took care of the bridge toll. i think i like her quite a bit actually ;)

i dont think all girls are going to try and fuck you over though, its just, most will. and its not girls. people are just fucking cunts.
she has still not got my seal of aproval, i am the only person that can judge a womans true intentions.

[slugy]

My gf is attractive, in medical school and mad cool. Her only "shortcoming" is that she isn't very big into videogames. But in a way, that is a good thing because it is something I can do without worrying about having to include her in it.

So no, not all girls are insane or bitches or trying to screw you over. You either have bad luck, are looking in the wrong place or, maybe, you are the one who is insane.

you know ive heard about medical chicks when they are in med school. keep a close eye.

[Lethn]

I don't think I want to know what YOUR into Spinewire with those saggy tits in your sig :rolleyes:

[tallefred]

Wow, I've never seen so many posts so quickly. Half of Forumfall has advice to give on women.

[slugy]

she has still not got my seal of aproval, i am the only person that can judge a womans true intentions.

ill send you pics babes xx

[Lethn]

Think it's more warning than advice lol :p

[Mulambo]

Confidence, not jerks.

Some girls do like bad boys though, and it's probably stemming from some parental issues, the fact he's off limits makes him attractive I guess? In general, I think just being confident is what works.

Well, uh, they are sure to note the confidence if you act like a jerk.

Don't sacrifice for a girl. Too often ppl want to sacrifice for each other, which just leads to miscommunication. Make deals / compromise is fine, but when you start to feel like you're doing her a huge favor, let her know and ask for (demand) something in return. Eg, she wants you to go to the opera with her, so you say "Fine, if you make me nachos and give me a bj while I'm watching the game on Sunday."

[Vertigo Vain]

Forumfall 0 : 2chan 1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko

l2empathy

[jonyak]

Forumfall 0 : 2chan 1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko

l2empathy

empathy is for non sociopaths.

[shnedit]

Wow, I've never seen so many posts so quickly. Half of Forumfall has advice to give on women.

Cause were all super studs who post while getting BJ's, duh.


ahshd ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[pookums]

From an objective female's perspective:


Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:


Yes

It's really annoying me. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

Most of them do, actually. Either for personal gain, or in the case of the ugly/fat/geeky ones - to prop up their egos.

It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

Non-psycho bill? You need to find a girl who is a tomboy. They are the only ones who TEND to be relatively sane because they don't mess about playing stupid mind games. Helps to be friends first, coz then you can see how psychopathic she is and whether you are willing to put up with it.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch.

This is a universal truth, but don't think that because she's fat or ugly that she's automatically not a bitch. All women have the same capacity for evil.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

Yes, me. I have been out in the real world long enough to know that you don't get something for nothing and you can't use other people as a free ride. I guess you've just been really unlucky. I assume you're still in school or college - although most girls love to pretend how mature they are, often the opposite is true until they are into their 20s.

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:

Because they're generally busy screwing men over. Also, the girls I met who play video games are some of the worst I've ever had the misfortune to run across. I've had some of them try to flirt with ME and get me to give them stuff (which can be entertaining, especially when someone tells them I'm female irl). They are generally the geeky, ugly, fat ones of school or college age who desperately crave male attention and will gather a huge harem of men that they will manipulate to that end. They are also horribly posessive, jealous and throw some incredible tantrums if the spotlight turns off them.

Also, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Women don't like guys who are clingy and annoying, but that doesn't mean you have to be an asshole just to get respect. Lol.

[Slaker]

I live in Montreal too Death, and we are about the same age if I am not wrong. Some girls are fucking bitch you are right, but most of the good ones have a boyfriend or you just don't know where to find them.

Since you are still virgin you might want to have sex with a girl who really love you and doesn't want to manipulate you. But forget that, sex will still be good even if you think she's manipulating you. If its not only about sex, then keep searching.

So just keep in mind that you can manipulate girls for your own desire and if you really want a girl that will not be a bitch just be patient. Its pretty much like waiting for Darkfall. This game will be the perfect one, but you had to wait a long time, now you are about to get it. Same goes for girls, you can find a cheap version with bugs, or you can try to program her and shape it like you want but its kinda hard to change girls bad habit. So my advice is, be patient and you will find her, hopefully in a near future!!

[holychicken]

you know ive heard about medical chicks when they are in med school. keep a close eye.
Thanks, but I will be okay.

[Spikey]

Not all of them are assholes, but without doubt EVERY single one is fucking insane.

[Battle]

Forumfall 0 : 2chan 1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko

l2empathy

Let us know how that works out for ya.

[Arkh]

GHB always do the trick.

[tallefred]

Ghb?

[Pcheez]

Also, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Women don't like guys who are clingy and annoying, but that doesn't mean you have to be an asshole just to get respect. Lol.

Bullshit.

Women love feeling they are needed.

Put on a good show of needing them and they are docile little arm accessories. Show any sign of apathy or independance, she starts slipping and eventually goes to the guy that beats her and calls her a whore but says "i love you" when she irons his shirts.

Peculiar creatures females, you cant really understand them, you just have to develop all encompassing counters to the crazy shit they tend to do.

[holychicken]

Not all of them are assholes, but without doubt EVERY single one is fucking insane.
People are strange, when you're a stranger.

[Lethn]

Not all of them are assholes, but without doubt EVERY single one is fucking insane.

Q F T That is one thing I'm sure about when it comes to girls even the nice ones can act fucking crazy at times :p

[shnedit]

GHB always do the trick.

I know, fucking amatures this lot.

[Arkh]

Ghb?
Your cheaper and more loyal buddy to get some good sex : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamma-Hydroxybutyric_acid

[jonyak]

Your cheaper and more loyal buddy to get some good sex : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamma-Hydroxybutyric_acid

I dunno about good.

I like my women to move around a bit when I am giving them some lovin.

[shnedit]

I dunno about good.

I like my women to move around a bit when I am giving them some lovin.

Tie strings to limbs and get a mate to move them and make noises.

[Sin]

Girls like assholes. I havent figured out why yet, but you need to be an asshole to get girls to respect you.

Because most assholes act like they don't care, and the girl trys HARDER to get them. Basically it makes them try a little harder to get what THEY want.

[tallefred]

Useful. Is it over the counter?

[jonyak]

Tie strings to limbs and get a mate to move them and make noises.

haha.. I just pictures making a porno version of weekend at bernies...:lmao:

[slugy]

GHB always do the trick.

<3 you know the score my friend, just be batshit insane so she knows if she fucks you, you will fuck her, over and over. with a blade cock.

[xpainzilla]

sanity

[xpainzilla]

and definition

[tallefred]

and definition

Lol I like your sig.

[holychicken]

I guess it shouldn't surprise me how confused guys on a gaming message board are about girls. . . but it kind of does.

[Astaren]

I guess it shouldn't surprise me how confused guys on a gaming message board are about girls. . . but it kind of does.

Well, it really doesn't matter if its a gaming board or not :p Girls are confusing, and always will be

[Pcheez]

Well, it really doesn't matter if its a gaming board or not :p Girls are confusing, and always will be

Considering all their minor eccentricity and unpredictability, its best to use a howitzer caliber solution for any wrenches they stick in your gear.

[Sin]

Well, it really doesn't matter if its a gaming board or not :p Girls are confusing, and always will be

and insane. You forgot that part sir.

[jonyak]

Well, it really doesn't matter if its a gaming board or not :p Girls are confusing, and always will be

girls confused me too, until I decided to not care about getting one and not care abotu how I acted in front of them. then when I started to just be myself and not try to get in there pants, they started to try and get into mine more regularily.

weird.

[holychicken]

Well, it really doesn't matter if its a gaming board or not :p Girls are confusing, and always will be
Some are, some aren't. Just like some guys are and some guys aren't.

I won't say they are the same, because that is silly, but they are no more or less confusing than guys.

[Satan]

youre doing it wrong

they do have that natural subconcious desire to trick and manipulate you so you have to let them think they are. the thing you missed is that all girls are idiots. all you have to do is let them think theyre winning their imaginary game but keep them in line. its not difficult it just takes some practice.

[tallefred]

they are no more or less confusing than guys.

Really? We must be living on separate planets in that case, because on mine, girls are confusing as hell.

[Pcheez]

youre doing it wrong

they do have that natural subconcious desire to trick and manipulate you so you have to let them think they are. the thing you missed is that all girls are idiots. all you have to do is let them think theyre winning their imaginary game but keep them in line. its not difficult it just takes some practice.

Depends on whos better at the game, which usually women are.

You may think you are two steps ahead of her, when in reality all your base already belong to her, years ago.

[holychicken]

Really? We must be living on separate planets in that case, because on mine, girls are confusing as hell.
Maybe it isn't the girls that are confusing, but you who is confused. That's all I'm saying.

[tallefred]

Maybe it isn't the girls that are confusing, but you who is confused. That's all I'm saying.

*shrug* I'm not going to convince you, and you aren't going to convince me.

[Delwyn]

They have vaginas and titties, so it's okay.

[Gibsnag]

I think its more than men and women think in completely different ways. Girls come off as insane to us and we come off as insane to them.

[maskedtears]

Depends on whos better at the game, which usually women are.

You may think you are two steps ahead of her, when in reality all your base already belong to her, years ago.

Lol wow that's funny.

[Death's Chill]

Romance, heh.

Damn it kid, wake up.

Women are just a nuiscance, wham bam thank you maam out the door.

You've got me figured all wrong.

The one you "love" and settle down with is the one you meet that just happens to be the least irritating.

Who said anything about settling down? That couldn't be any further from what I want. What I want is someone intelligent and cure, who I like and who genuinely likes me back, to take part in an equal and completely mutual relationship, and to experience life's wondrous adventures together.



If you strive so hard to find "the one", you will easily find a manipulative chameleon of a bitch that will be everything you want her to be. But when she gets what she wants out of you or bored of you, you will get dumped and you probably go into a depression and mope for a long while. This will result in your evolution to a heartless chauvanist who just uses women for sex.

Well, just for the record, I don't believe in "the one". I think there are thousands of girls out there, in the pool of the whole planet, who I would connect with absofuckingperfectly with, and would feel the same way... I never said anything about just being able to be in love with one. I'm not religious. I don't believe in soul mates, but I do believe in love. ;)


You will then treat women like walking meat, or straight out ignoring them, they will flock to you if you have any factor of attraction (money,power,charisma[even asshole charisma]). Its just the way it works for some reason.

Well, if I ignore them, you're right. Women tend to want what they can't have really badly... but if they get me, they'll run away out of boredom. It's just ridiculous to me...

You will then proceed to fuck anything that moves with breasts and leave a trail of heartbreak behind you.

I really fucking hope that doesn't happen. I don't want to be that guy, dude.

Eventually when your penis gets bored of its nomadic conquests, you will look for "the one" again, and having had much more experience with women, you will dig out all her bad traits pretty quickly. If shes not a total pain in the ass, you settle down.

Haha, me settle down... ya right. :cool:


That, is the way of real menz.

Dont kid yourself, you have no clue what you want yet.

dont bet too much on finding a graet girl you will settle down with so early in life.

Signed
Dr-Fil (░)

Oh I know what I want, it's just extremely hard to find because I have to filter through all the trash. Like trying to find a diamond in a pool of glass balls. :rolleyes:

[Xelos]

Women are generally either hot or intelligent, not both. Make up your mind! Those that happen to be both hot and intelligent are the worst bitches, cause they can be.

Apart from that, as others have said, stop being a romantic pussy and learn to be an asshole, it works: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jmcu5Y8p4fA

[tallefred]

Apart from that, as others have said, stop being a romantic pussy and learn to be an asshole, it works: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jmcu5Y8p4fA

Those women are hella ugly. They are right, they deserve bastards.

[Mulambo]

Women are generally either hot or intelligent, not both. Make up your mind! Those that happen to be both hot and intelligent are the worst bitches, cause they can be.

Bitches ftw imo.

[Salo]

Maybe it isn't the girls that are confusing, but you who is confused. That's all I'm saying.

*chuckles* and therein lies a little truth.

[holychicken]

*shrug* I'm not going to convince you, and you aren't going to convince me.
Your loss, not mine.

[Lethn]

Bitches ftw imo.

lol I have to agree, I had the misfortune of meeting a hot and intelligent bitch early on, I got her back for it though, I think most guys are better off being with a hot girl that isn't terribly clever because then they won't constantly try to screw with your mind.

[Death's Chill]

girls confused me too, until I decided to not care about getting one and not care abotu how I acted in front of them. then when I started to just be myself and not try to get in there pants, they started to try and get into mine more regularily.

weird.

I have a theory about that, it goes like this: girls are so insecure about themselves, that if someone starts to show any interest in them, they ask themselves why. Why is he interested in me, when I'm such a horrible/ugly/weird girl (of course she's not any of these things, but like any other young hot girl, thinks she is), then she starts to think to herself, perhaps it's because he's got something wrong with him? Why would he want me, after all? So she pulls back, and gets intrigued by the asshole who pays her no attention.

Not bad, is it? :cool:

Well, uh, they are sure to note the confidence if you act like a jerk.

I never said being a Jerk can't work, sad fact is it usually does save for the rare occassion, I merely stated you don't have to be a jerk to get a girl's attention, all you need is to be comfortable with yourself. Confident.

Don't sacrifice for a girl. Too often ppl want to sacrifice for each other, which just leads to miscommunication. Make deals / compromise is fine, but when you start to feel like you're doing her a huge favor, let her know and ask for (demand) something in return. Eg, she wants you to go to the opera with her, so you say "Fine, if you make me nachos and give me a bj while I'm watching the game on Sunday."

Well, small sacrifices are okay early on, but nothing big imo.

i took a girl out today, shes small and quite attractive (at least to my tastes) and tbh i didint spend a penny on her, apart from fuels. she even took care of the bridge toll. i think i like her quite a bit actually ;)

i dont think all girls are going to try and fuck you over though, its just, most will. and its not girls. people are just fucking cunts.

Seriously? How old is she? You've got a damn fine girl there, tbh.

Watch out though, it's sick, but I guess I'm cynical and skeptic over all chicks now... if she's being sweet, just be careful and make fucking sure you use a condom of your own. :p

Women are generally either hot or intelligent, not both. Make up your mind! Those that happen to be both hot and intelligent are the worst bitches, cause they can be.

Apart from that, as others have said, stop being a romantic pussy and learn to be an asshole, it works: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jmcu5Y8p4fA

Well, she doesn't have to be fucking Einstein. I just would like a girl I'm attracted to, and who knows how to have a decent conversation with me about something other than makeup and shopping..

[Nexus]

Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

And most guys won't? Don't you try and 'manipulate' girls into bed?

[Slypieguy]

Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?


I had multiple girls pay for both me and her while I was in Japan, before I could even offer. You're in the wrong country!

But seriously, American girls have some seriously fucked up perception. They are some of the least attractive and worst educated girls in the world, yet they think their stock is through the roof.

[Death's Chill]

From an objective female's perspective:

Pics or fake! :rolleyes:



Yes

So I thought.



Most of them do, actually. Either for personal gain, or in the case of the ugly/fat/geeky ones - to prop up their egos.

Do women not feel guilt for doing this? Perhaps I'm just a good guy, but I'd never want to do this unless it was done to me first.



Non-psycho bill? You need to find a girl who is a tomboy. They are the only ones who TEND to be relatively sane because they don't mess about playing stupid mind games. Helps to be friends first, coz then you can see how psychopathic she is and whether you are willing to put up with it.

Problem with that is I'm physically attracted to the cute and innocent look, tomboys usually look a tad bit more manly and "mature", so to speak. Like Megan fox vs Hayden Panetierre. Hayden wins hand-down, physically. That's for me though.

Hopefully there are some cute looking girls with the mentality of a tomboy.



This is a universal truth, but don't think that because she's fat or ugly that she's automatically not a bitch. All women have the same capacity for evil.

Doesn't matter. I'd rather be lonely than in a relationship with a girl I don't find attractive.



Yes, me. I have been out in the real world long enough to know that you don't get something for nothing and you can't use other people as a free ride. I guess you've just been really unlucky. I assume you're still in school or college - although most girls love to pretend how mature they are, often the opposite is true until they are into their 20s.

Well I commend you for that. It's not just about the free ride aspect, but the sheer hypocrisy of claiming to want to be equal, then expecting us to pay for everything, plan everything, hunt for them, approach them, initiate everything... is it just me, or is it plain dumb?

Honestly, if a girl asks or expects you to pay for everything, she has very little respect for you, or doesn't care about you much at all.

Oh and no I'm not in school now. I'm 18. :)



Because they're generally busy screwing men over. Also, the girls I met who play video games are some of the worst I've ever had the misfortune to run across. I've had some of them try to flirt with ME and get me to give them stuff (which can be entertaining, especially when someone tells them I'm female irl). They are generally the geeky, ugly, fat ones of school or college age who desperately crave male attention and will gather a huge harem of men that they will manipulate to that end. They are also horribly posessive, jealous and throw some incredible tantrums if the spotlight turns off them.

That's a shame, really. I guess hot girls are too busy with everyday drama from all the crying to the IW (intellectual whore) and fucking their jerks to have time to play or have even a single good thought about a decent guy. :bang:

Also, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Women don't like guys who are clingy and annoying, but that doesn't mean you have to be an asshole just to get respect. Lol.

Oh, well don't worry. I'm not especially clueless as to how to gain interest in a girl. I probably could go out and find an attractive girl now and get sex, but like I said, I want more than just sex.

[Slypieguy]

Maybe if you wouldn't be such a hopeless dork the girls wouldn't toy with you as much.

Also this

[Slypieguy]

Where the fuck did romance go?

People grew up and realized Disney wasn't real...

[Pcheez]

And most guys won't? Don't you try and 'manipulate' girls into bed?

Nope, i just wrassle em.

[Lethn]

I think this has to be the only forum where I've actually covered my eyes in despair over what some people say.

[Death's Chill]

And most guys won't? Don't you try and 'manipulate' girls into bed?

Nope.

I'd be a hypocrite if I did.

And like I've said, I don't want my first time to have no meaning. I don't want it to just be fucking..

[Slypieguy]

My gf is attractive, in medical school and mad cool. Her only "shortcoming" is that she isn't very big into videogames. But in a way, that is a good thing because it is something I can do without worrying about having to include her in it.

So no, not all girls are insane or bitches or trying to screw you over. You either have bad luck, are looking in the wrong place or, maybe, you are the one who is insane.

Yea yea, it's always good and fun while you're both in school. Then real life hits, kids, she gets fat, etc. Enjoy your fail

[shnedit]

I think this has to be the only forum where I've actually covered my eyes in despair over what some people say.

lmao, these are the sad facts of life, and love.

[jonyak]

Nope.

I'd be a hypocrite if I did.

And like I've said, I don't want my first time to have no meaning. I don't want it to just be fucking..

your first time is gonna suck, might as well be a one nighter man.

[Death's Chill]

your first time is gonna suck, might as well be a one nighter man.

It's not just about the physical experience, the emotional attachment involved.

I just need chemistry with her, that's all. It would be nice to be confident that she had no ill-plans to manipulate me, too... but maybe I just want too much. Girls seem fucking pathetic for the most part, tbh... very depressing.

People grew up and realized Disney wasn't real...

I'm not talking about magic.

Life can be what you make it.

I guess people are too greedy to play fair and try to go for the mushy goodness, instead of cold hard allure of corrupted gold takes its play and emotions are tossed aside as meaningless distractions. :(

I had multiple girls pay for both me and her while I was in Japan, before I could even offer. You're in the wrong country!

But seriously, American girls have some seriously fucked up perception. They are some of the least attractive and worst educated girls in the world, yet they think their stock is through the roof.

Yeah, maybe that's true. I've always had a thing, physically, for Japanese/Chinese women. They are petite, I love that. And they are usually quite adorable. If they also play fair, well... I may have to look into that.

[AmonDominus]

Yeah. Romance...

Best to find out early that shit doesn't exist. When you meet "the one" for the first time, all seems nice and jolly. Then later on the so-called romance becomes non-existant and the girl transforms into a crazy bitch.
It will be worse if she was a virgin aswell.

"What? You're dumping me? But...but...you can't!! You were inside meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!11 XD"
Phase #1 *stalk*
Phase #2 *weird phone calls*
Phase #3 *Woman revenge mode [+999999 damage] activate*

Just whore around as much as possible at a young age. Be an asshole or some confident "nice guy". But don't stay around 1 girl for too long.
They eventually get bored of the routine and so will you.
Romance might be nice for a couple of weeks, but later it's just...meh...

Also women are crazy brain ninjas and their anger is un-imaginable.

[shnedit]

It's not just about the physical experience, the emotional attachment involved.

I just need chemistry with her, that's all. It would be nice to be confident that she had no ill-plans to manipulate me, too... but maybe I just want too much. Girls seem fucking pathetic for the most part, tbh... very depressing.


Honestly I used to be like that. Give up.

[Nexus]

Nope, i just wrassle em.
HAHAHA, good choice of words.

[Death's Chill]

Honestly I used to be like that. Give up.

Yeah, I don't give up so easily as some.

The only true failure is quiting. ;)

[Slypieguy]

I'm not talking about magic.

Life can be what you make it.

I guess people are too greedy to play fair and try to go for the mushy goodness, instead of cold hard allure of corrupted gold takes its play and emotions are tossed aside as meaningless distractions. :(


There is no mushy goodness. You said yourself you're a virgin, aren't good with girls, etc. The only mushy goodness you know of if that propagated by Disney and other society-ruining institutions, and maybe flashes of hormone-induced extra emotion during your teenage years (which you are still not far from). A lot of people confuse initial infatuation with "love, romance, etc," especially those who have never been in a long-term relationship like yourself. It is no mystery why the divorce rate is over 50% and of the ones who actually do stay together most are miserable. This mushy stuff you are seeking due to social/media impressions just isn't there man.

[Death's Chill]

There is no mushy goodness. You said yourself you're a virgin, aren't good with girls, etc. The only mushy goodness you know of if that propagated by Disney and other society-ruining institutions, and maybe flashes of hormone-induced extra emotion during your teenage years (which you are still not far from). A lot of people confuse initial infatuation with "love, romance, etc," especially those who have never been in a long-term relationship like yourself. It is no mystery why the divorce rate is over 50% and of the ones who actually do stay together most are miserable. This mushy stuff you are seeking due to social/media impressions just isn't there man.

Again, you misunderstand my true desires.

I want mushy stuff in the sense of a simple emotional connection with the girl.

I do NOT want to settle down, though. I just want a girl that likes to have fun, and that I get along great with. ;)

[holychicken]

Yea yea, it's always good and fun while you're both in school. Then real life hits, kids, she gets fat, etc. Enjoy your fail
Who said I was still in school? She went BACK to school. On top of that, we are both very healthy and care about our appearance. She is a pescetarian, we backpack and camp regularly and we both swim. Granted, we have no kids and getting fat is always a possibility. But maybe you didn't catch the part where I said she mad cool and where I said she was going to be rich.

Sorry, but your life failure != mine.

[Slaker]

There is no mushy goodness. You said yourself you're a virgin, aren't good with girls, etc. The only mushy goodness you know of if that propagated by Disney and other society-ruining institutions, and maybe flashes of hormone-induced extra emotion during your teenage years (which you are still not far from). A lot of people confuse initial infatuation with "love, romance, etc," especially those who have never been in a long-term relationship like yourself. It is no mystery why the divorce rate is over 50% and of the ones who actually do stay together most are miserable. This mushy stuff you are seeking due to social/media impressions just isn't there man.

QFT!

[Roz]

you sound like a virgin.

[tallefred]

He already mentioned that he's not looking for Hollywood romance, just a girl with half a brain who's not a total bitch.

[Nehemia]

The easiest way around this is to lack emotions.
When someone manages to proof to me that this "love" is more than biological desire to go fuck someone, I might change my attitude.

[5%Luck]

Ive never meet a woman that didnt use other guys to keep me in line. That said I dont walk a line very often sooo...

[shnedit]

you sound like a virgin.

did you read the OP ? /giggle

[Sin]

love backwards spells evol.

evol sounds like evil.


HEYUCK HEYUCK HEYUCK

[Corpse]

Yeah, I'm confused.
Yes.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:
Yes.

It's really annoying me. I've been reading up on general "ladder" theory (if you don't know what it is, you should look it up), and I have come to a conclusion. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

Yes.


It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

Ew.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch. Most of the people I talk to about this claim that it's a simple game, were the goal is to fuck them over before they do you. I can't even begin to express my dissatisfaction with this mind frame, but yet the more I live... the more I begin to fear its accuracy.

The trick is to break down they're self esteem so they dont feel like such hot shit anymore, and maybe throw a bitch slap in there every once and a while.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. That's all you ever hear coming from them, isn't it? Well, I think they are full of shit.

It's bullshit.

When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. Equal? Ya right. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

When they offer to pay, I dont let them,
because I know its bullshit and I want sex.

If so, you're damn lucky; I'll say that.

Perhaps I'm just not in the pristine age group. Girls my age are, well, ridiculous...

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:

Because men and women have different taste?



.....

[Death's Chill]

He already mentioned that he's not looking for Hollywood romance, just a girl with half a brain who's not a total bitch.

Exactly.

Obviously the happily ever after crap doesn't exist, but finding a girl that I do love is merely one who is compatible with me, and with whom I can feel happy with... no settling down, commitments, complications. Just the simple stuff. ;)

[Lethn]

http://adultfriendfinder.com/ maybe?

[5%Luck]

This is a very bad place to get answers yea we are smart but dumb people fuck like rabbits!

[shnedit]

http://adultfriendfinder.com/ maybe?

Cool. Do I have to pay? One can never have too much loooving.

[Mulambo]

This is a very bad place to get answers yea we are smart but dumb people fuck like rabbits!

yeah, go set up one of those card tables at the entrance to WalMart like the voter registration ppl have and ask them what they think.

[tallefred]

You should stop using the word love, it's confusing people. Try compatible maybe?

[shnedit]

You should stop using the word love, it's confusing people. Try compatible maybe?

I use love well freely, and it confuses the fuck out of girls, but hey.

[Lethn]

*yawns and preens feathers*

[Salo]

The easiest way around this is to lack emotions.
When someone manages to proof to me that this "love" is more than biological desire to go fuck someone, I might change my attitude.


I think that's possibly one of the most depressing things I have ever read. In fact, I think this entire thread is fairly depressing.

People are people. Some good, some bad, some self-serving and manipulative, some caring and compassionate, some fun, some surly, some brave. This is the case for men and it is the case for women. There are differences in the way the two approach certain things, in the way their brains process information and in some of the basic drives which underscore their motivations. But it is not the gulf I see here, in these responses.

[5%Luck]

yeah, go set up one of those card tables at the entrance to WalMart like the voter registration ppl have and ask them what they think.

I know what they think im just not willing to accept it!

[Slypieguy]

Who said I was still in school? She went BACK to school. On top of that, we are both very healthy and care about our appearance. She is a pescetarian, we backpack and camp regularly and we both swim. Granted, we have no kids and getting fat is always a possibility. But maybe you didn't catch the part where I said she mad cool and where I said she was going to be rich.

Sorry, but your life failure != mine.

My point still remains, kids change everything.

And I'm glad you presume to know about my "life failure," lol. My life kicks ass. Congrats on marrying a doctor though, at least you got one who can provide for herself, which isn't much to ask considering the amount of bullshit you're going to have to put up with.

[Slypieguy]

Exactly.

Obviously the happily ever after crap doesn't exist, but finding a girl that I do love is merely one who is compatible with me, and with whom I can feel happy with... no settling down, commitments, complications. Just the simple stuff. ;)

In that case follow that other poster's advice and find a cute tomboy

[Slypieguy]

This thread reminds me of American Psycho, what a great movie.

I can't believe they like his fucking business card more than mine!

[Lethn]

I've always found it hilarious when people older than me go on and bitch about other people failing like they know what they're talking about, just shows they don't have what they want in life and want to take it out on other people.

[5%Luck]

I think the word were looking for is copulation! to couple : verb!

[Mulambo]

I think the word were looking for is copulation! to couple : verb!

copulate is the verb, copulation is a noun.

[holychicken]

My point still remains, kids change everything.

And I'm glad you presume to know about my "life failure," lol. My life kicks ass. Congrats on marrying a doctor though, at least you got one who can provide for herself, which isn't much to ask considering the amount of bullshit you're going to have to put up with.
If your life kicked ass, you wouldn't be so bitter about women. But that's okay, you keep telling yourself that you have it all figured out because you think that life with a woman is miserable. I will be happily living my life with a cool and good looking woman.

[tallefred]

Holychicken, did you only start dating this woman very recently?

[Slypieguy]

If your life kicked ass, you wouldn't be so bitter about women. But that's okay, you keep telling yourself that you have it all figured out because you think that life with a woman is miserable. I will be happily living my life with a cool and good looking woman.

I'm not bitter about women, I'm a big fan of them. I'm also smart enough to realize that people who get married in their early 20s and such are morons throwing away the prime of their lives. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Even the kid who started this thread recognizes that you can have an adequate emotional relationship without marrying the girl

[Mysteryos]

Girls come in all tastes.. Some Abuse, Some like to be abused :p

[RhyssaFireheart]

What ever happened to just being friends with someone of the opposite gender without trying to get into anyone's pants? Someone else mentioned becoming friends with a person first so you can see what they're like; that's good advice.

Almost everyone here seems to be focused on the sex part but you can't spend all your time in bed. If you can't hold a conversation with the person you're with, who cares how great the sex is? It's not the be-all, end-all of a relationship. It's a hell of a lot of fun, sure, but outside the bedroom, if you don't have any interests in common or aren't willing to try out the other person's interests to see if you like them then the relationship isn't going to last.

People regardless of gender can be manipulative, that's not the sole domain of women. People in general are insane and have all sorts of weirdities that can turn others off (and on, in some cases). Stop trying to pigeonhole everyone and just be yourself, try being friends instead of seeking some ultimate goal (having sex) and see how things go. Oh, and being friends doesn't mean knowing the girl for a week before you ask her out, either.

As for dating and who pays - the person doing the asking should pay. If that's a guy, fine, if it's the girl, fine as well. It just seems like men do most of the paying because it's "expected" that guys do the asking out. It doesn't make sense and luckily more females seem to be open to asking guys out instead of waiting for them to do it instead.

I agree with whoever said reading threads like this makes me want to cover my eyes in disbelief, especially at most of the reponses.

[holychicken]

Holychicken, did you only start dating this woman very recently?
The girl I am talking about I have been dating for 8+ years and she was far from my first. So no, not at all.

[Oniloke]

Yeah, I'm confused.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:



Yes.. all girls are crazy... and the crazier the better =) life isn't fun without women... They are the reason to live man, forever and ever =P

[holychicken]

I'm not bitter about women, I'm a big fan of them. I'm also smart enough to realize that people who get married in their early 20s and such are morons throwing away the prime of their lives. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Even the kid who started this thread recognizes that you can have an adequate emotional relationship without marrying the girl
You are all over the place, I am not even sure how to address you anymore. At first it was that my gf was going to get fat and kids were going to ruin my life. Then it was that I was going to have to put up with a lot of BS from my gf. Now it is I wasted the prime of my life (I assure you, I didn't. . .I had been around the block enough times to realize I had found myself a keeper) and that you actually are a big fan of girls . . .despite all the nasty shit you say about them and the negative outlook you have of them and how being with a very good one is "wasting a prime of a life."

What the hell are you trying to say, I really don't get it.

[Slypieguy]

What the hell are you trying to say, I really don't get it.

Girls are great, but getting into a committed relationship/marriage, especially during your prime years, is for suckers. Is that simple enough?

[Brett]

Yeah, I'm confused.

Let me ask you this simple little question, are all girls fucking crazy? :ninja:

It's really annoying me. I've been reading up on general "ladder" theory (if you don't know what it is, you should look it up), and I have come to a conclusion. Girls will inevitably try to manipulate you for their own personal gain. Perhaps they don't do this on a conscious level, though some certainly do...

It boils my blood very deeply. Being a romantic, and a virgin (bring on the flames, I'm cold anyhow) it's very difficult to find a girl that would even remotely fit the bill.

The general rule of thumb seems to be: if she's hot, she's a bitch. Most of the people I talk to about this claim that it's a simple game, were the goal is to fuck them over before they do you. I can't even begin to express my dissatisfaction with this mind frame, but yet the more I live... the more I begin to fear its accuracy.

Oh and what's more proof to the very nature of hypocracy, feminists are so hung up about equality. That's all you ever hear coming from them, isn't it? Well, I think they are full of shit.

When you ask a girl out, you do all the work. They don't do anything. If they are even semi-attractive, they're set for life. Equal? Ya right. What about on the traditional dinner date, or any date that requires payment at the end? Do any of you know of a girl that, sincerely and genuinely, offers to pay for at least her share?

If so, you're damn lucky; I'll say that.

Perhaps I'm just not in the pristine age group. Girls my age are, well, ridiculous...

Oh and last but not least, why the fuck do almost no girls play interesting video games? :bang:


I disagree with you about girls trying to manipulate things for their own gain. People are just people, man. Once you stop trying to read theories on how to attract women, and instead spend your time making yourself attractive, you'll find that you have no problem getting girls.

Stop trolling the darkfall forums all day (unless you're doin it on the clock lol), and go do some interesting shit. Join a boxing club, go mountain biking, play music in a band. Do something that you will be able to brag about to show girls that you aren't a loser. And it's not just about showing them something, it's about actually living up to that image. You can only hold up a masquerade for so long, and it usually falls apart far before you've managed to bring her home.

By trying to be something you are not, you're only lying to yourself. Improve yourself and develop a lifestyle that is attractive to women, and it will become effortless. Instead of trying to memorize a bunch of lines, you'll just have to tell a few stories about what you did last week and any girl you talk to will be captivated.

Another thing I've noticed while trolling night clubs for women is this: Guys these days are fucking soft (myself included - check my pics in another thread). Have you ever noticed that some guys just look rugged? Guess what, you can look rugged too. All you have to do is start being rugged. Stop spending so much time in front of the computer (again, unless you're getting paid to do it), and go out into the world.

Life is a game of risk vs reward. People tend to feel like something that is a larger reward is worth more risk. Additionally, if you have a lot of exciting and dangerous stories showing that you are willing to take great risks in life, you will come across as a valuable reward for some girl!

The way I see it is this: Everything you percieve in the world comes from within you. Your own conciousness directs the story that is your life. The most basic tools you have for manipulating this story are your mind and your body. The most important thing to improve is your mind. However, if your body is affecting the state of your mind, then you need to improve your body to the point where you become comfortable in your own skin. Once you have improved your body and that is no longer a source of discomfort for you, focus on improving your own happyness.

Once people see that you are a fit, interesting, funny guy, you won't have to follow any ladder theory, you'll just have to start talking and people will be able to sense the truth. People were born with the ability to see right through bullshit, it's an evolutionary trait that came along with the ability to lie. The flipside of this is that people can also sense when you are being genuine. That is the most attractive thing you can possibly do.

[Slypieguy]

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[shnedit]

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The shorter version was:

Get a life, look rugged.

[holychicken]

Girls are great, but getting into a committed relationship/marriage, especially during your prime years, is for suckers. Is that simple enough?
So your presumption is that I had wasted my prime years. Got it. You're wrong, BTW.

But what does her getting fat and kids have to do with any of this? Honestly, your short and sweet version doesn't encapsulate all of the BS you were throwing at me.

[Slypieguy]

The shorter version was:

Get a life, look rugged.

lol, rugged, that's so early 90s

Maybe they are a little behind in London

[Slypieguy]

So your presumption is that I had wasted my prime years. Got it. You're wrong, BTW.

But what does her getting fat and kids have to do with any of this? Honestly, your short and sweet version doesn't encapsulate all of the BS you were throwing at me.

Well, if she becomes fat she isn't attractive anymore. If you have kids, pretty much all of your time/money/energy goes into them, and it also compounds the chance that she will get fat. You become a slave to a fat woman and some sniveling brats, but it's ok, because the fat woman is still cool... hopefully...

[Brett]

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god, i didn't even read the poor guy's post before making my reply. after reading it, i just feel bad for him. this guy has set his standards so high, when he doesn't measure up to high standards himself.

dude, if you're a bit overweight, you have a way better chance picking up a fat chick than a gymnist. if you're a nerd, start looking for a nerdy girl. if you're the lead singer in a popular indie-scene band, take your pick!

[Slypieguy]

dude, if you're a bit overweight, you have a way better chance picking up a fat chick than a gymnist. if you're a nerd, start looking for a nerdy girl. if you're the lead singer in a popular indie-scene band, take your pick!

Even pretty ugly/fat white guys can get a hot asian girl. I'm telling you, they are the answers to everyone's problems

[greeneggsnoham]

Girls aren't any more insane than us men.

I would change your title to Relationships = Insanity

[holychicken]

Well, if she becomes fat she isn't attractive anymore. If you have kids, pretty much all of your time/money/energy goes into them, and it also compounds the chance that she will get fat. You become a slave to a fat woman and some sniveling brats, but it's ok, because the fat woman is still cool... hopefully...
Dig up, my friend. Dig up.

[Brett]

Even pretty ugly/fat white guys can get a hot asian girl. I'm telling you, they are the answers to everyone's problems

i agree with you there. for asian girls (that is, girls from asia), the fact that you are white is enough. sure, you might be a freak show, but you're still a show.

furthermore, ugly/fat white guys can pick up any kind of girl they want, so long as the other aspects of their character and personality outweigh their undesirable physical appearance.

that being said, there's no excuse for anyone to be fat for more than a year or two after realizing that they are fat. if you are fat and you want to stop being fat, then just stop being fat. obviously you aren't going to go to the gym one day and lose 30 pounds, but if you start working out, then you will start losing weight.

in my experience, it's hard to lose more than one pound a week and keep it off. even still, that's a perfectly acceptable rate of progress. that means in a year you could lose more than 50 pounds, assuming you keep up with your regimen for 12 months. most people don't even need to lose 50 lbs, either, 10 or 20 would be more than enough.

however, losing weight isn't enough. i've seen plenty of guys who definitely aren't fat but who still look like pussies. and the reason for this is that they are pussies. even a guy who goes to the gym 5 times a week to lift weights can be a pussy. if you want to be a man, you need to start being a man.

[Slypieguy]

Dig up, my friend. Dig up.

What?

[holychicken]

What?
Let me make it simple. I asked you to sum up what you said, you summed it up by basically accusing me of wasting my prime by being in a relationship in my early 20s. Earlier in the debate, you basically attacked me telling me my gf was going to get fat and become a bitch and/or PITA. I pointed out how the latter did not fit into your summation and your defense of that was to tell me my gf was going to become fat and maybe not even cool anymore.

Even more simply, you are trying to cover up BS nonsense with more BS nonsense. Thus why I ask you to dig up.

[Slypieguy]

Let me make it simple. I asked you to sum up what you said, you summed it up by basically accusing me of wasting my prime by being in a relationship in my early 20s. Earlier in the debate, you basically attacked me telling me my gf was going to get fat and become a bitch and/or PITA. I pointed out how the latter did not fit into your summation and your defense of that was to tell me my gf was going to become fat and maybe not even cool anymore.

Even more simply, you are trying to cover up BS nonsense with more BS nonsense. Thus why I ask you to dig up.

It's not nonsense to me. I'm not personally attacking you, hell maybe you are one of the lucky vast minority who got one that will stay cool and good looking. And I already congratulated you on getting one with good earning potential, I don't know why you taking my generic assessments so personally.

[pyrow]

99% of girls = insane
the 1% that arent are dead

[bluthorn]

Women are not the definition of insanity.
They are insanity incarnate.

[Dazarthas]

If I could discount this negative perception of women, I probably would, but I have never went out with a girl who wasn't crazy on some level. Then again, I've only dated depressed white girls, so that might have something to do with it... perhaps asians are the answer, indeed?

[Death's Chill]

The shorter version was:

Get a life, look rugged.

I have a natural baby face. Also, my voice is in the middle tone, not that high, I sound like a guy, but at the same time, I wished it were a bit deeper.

So, due to these natural traits that as far as I am aware cannot be changed, I can never really "look" rugged. I can be rough, fun, spontaneous, confident, exhilarating, quirky... different, and all around interesting, but my look has been predetermined due to random luck; genetics.

It sucks, but yeah I can't do much about that.

[Death's Chill]

god, i didn't even read the poor guy's post before making my reply. after reading it, i just feel bad for him. this guy has set his standards so high, when he doesn't measure up to high standards himself.

dude, if you're a bit overweight, you have a way better chance picking up a fat chick than a gymnist. if you're a nerd, start looking for a nerdy girl. if you're the lead singer in a popular indie-scene band, take your pick!

I'm a fairly cute and fit 18 year old male - fun and happy/positive.

How do my standards not fit? The type of girl I want is basically exactly like me, in personality. ;)

[Slypieguy]

I'm a fairly cute and fit 18 year old male - fun and happy/positive.

How do my standards not fit? The type of girl I want is basically exactly like me, in personality. ;)

Weren't you the one asking the forum for help with you severe acne? Just saying

[Dazarthas]

The type of girl I want is basically exactly like me, in personality. ;)

Well, that'd explain why you chase after lunatics.

[Death's Chill]

Weren't you the one asking the forum for help with you severe acne? Just saying

Yes. That was months ago. I still have one or two pimples, but it's definitely calming down. I'm quite attractive, besides the minor remaining acne. :)

Plus I can like, totally do impressive handstands. :p

Well, that'd explain why you chase after lunatics.

You think you're special for being able to come up with an obvious insult don't you? Nope, you're predictable.

[Maize]

A woman's mind is filled to the brim with complex contradictions and riddled with deadly pitfalls. As a whole, they are quite frightening.

[Hackapell]

The few women we have need to make a thread titled "Do men = definition of insanity?". I want to see what they put. Death's Chill, get a LJ account.